Love for Wife

Narrated 'Aisha: I never felt so jealous of any woman as I did of Khadija, though she had died three years before the Prophet married me, and that was because I heard him mentioning her too often, and because his Lord had ordered him to give her the glad tidings that she would have a palace in Paradise, made of Qasab and because he used to slaughter a sheep and distribute its meat among her friends.

Good husband

Prophet said “When somebody comes to you whose khuluq you are content with and his deen then marry him to your daughter and if you do not do this, there will be tribulation and corruption widespread”

Prophet said, “fatima is peace of me” he was giving away something precious. Ali (karram allaho wajh) did not have dawry to marry. he had to borrow it. So put her in the hands of most righteous man in the city. A woman is married for four reasons, one is wealth maaliha , for beauty jamaliha and lineage, nasabiha which is concern for the jahili Arabs. So take spouses for deeniha take the one who has protected the faith or character because this is how you protect your next generation

Woman’s right to marry

While Shafi and Malik permit, father to compel his daughter in matter of marriage, Abu Hanifa, Al Thawri, al-Awzai and majority of early jurists insist that girl has final say in marriage matter. Shafi requires consent of guardian of woman for validation of marriage, while Abu Hanifa, al-Shubi, and al-Zuhri permits a woman to marry herself despite her family disapproval

Living with a girlfriend

What is the Hukm about a Muslim living with a girlfriend and what is the solution? The hukm has not changed. It’s same as it was 1,400 years ago, even 500 years or 30 years. It’s haram. The solution is marriage. And I guarantee you will get same answer from a father in a remote village in Pakistan or Egypt. You don’t need any mufti for that.

Polygamy

An old man marries a young woman while he married to his first wife. When he goes to young woman, she plucks his grey hairs and when he goes to old wife, she plucks his black hairs until man becomes bald.

The old man says, I married two wives out of my ignorance. The man who marries two will get great tribulation. I thought of myself that I am going to be like a ram, enjoying myself between the two ewes. But it came exactly the opposite of what I thought. Constant bickering between two tribulations. Making one happy, makes other unhappy. So I am constantly between two angry ones. So if you want my advice and want to live a happy life, free in your mind, contented life... be a bachelor and if you have to then just marry one.    

Creating Fight

Narrated AbuHurayrah: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: If anyone corrupts (instigates) the wife of a man or his slave (against him), he is not from us.

Modesty

'Abd al-Rahman, the son of Abu Sa'id al-Khudri, reported from his father: The Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) said: A man should not see the private parts of another man, and a woman should not see the private parts of another woman, and a man should not lie with another man under one covering, and a woman should not lie with another woman under one covering.